Not only is she affirming, admiring and tolerant of someone such as me but she came to me with an obvious gift and another gift that surfaced after we were married.
The obvious one is this: Lady Susanna is almost peerless when it comes to children. How to make them happy; how to help them to learn; how to understand what it really means when a baby cries and other aspects of the lives of children that I never knew are all things that she knows well.
I observed this as we were (and I use the word "we" loosely) raising our son, Michael St.James. La Preciosa was never at a loss to know exactly what to do under any circumstance of his life. The fact that he is, now, a well-adjusted and happy adult is solid proof of her gift.
The gift that surfaced after we were married was (and is) as important to both of us as it is to Michael St. James. You see, Lady Susanna was raised around cats; all sorts of cats. The poor woman never had a dog until she married me. I know that not all Yankee children grow up without dogs - but Lady Susanna did.
We drove up to Black Canyon with the intent of getting a Blue Tick Hound. Instead, we came home with George: a Houndoyte. George was soon joined by Moonshine the Bloodhound. Then came Mr. Peabody ("Pete") the Border Collie and Sally, the Texas 'Ol Black Dog. Currently, our family includes Mr. Eugene L. Dog (a Jack Russell) and Missy (another Texas 'Ol Black Dog). Sometime in the future, a British bulldog may join our family ... but not just yet.
Now, really, what do you think? A woman who is gifted when it comes to children and would also rescue even the ugliest and most stupid dog on the face of the earth is much more than i deserved. She is, however, the great deal that I got!